I've had some real success with sparkpeople.com and doing food and exercise journaling.

The site is easy to use; you have to devote some time to it, but they do have a pretty big database. They start you off slow: walking once a day, 8 glasses of water, sharing your goals with someone.

Try it out! If you do sign up, use UncleFoobar as the referral; i get sparkpoints, this boodle system they have you do to keep involved on the site.

Foob

You might think about incorporating your apartment search into your goal of getting in better shape. Can you find an apartment where you can walk to work? If not, can you walk to public transportation? Even a few blocks adds up, and people who take public transport always end up walking much more.

Also, take a look at the neighborhood to make sure there are stores and businesses close by. I think it's less of an issue in the east, but on the west coast it's a problem. We have lots of zoning laws that end up creating residential ghettos, where everyone MUST drive everywhere, even to get a few items for dinner.

I travel a lot, and the differences in the way other cultures shop, eat and travel is profound. American cities are (for the most part) not designed in a way that encourages healthy habits.

Thanks for your comment, JR, that's a great thought. If I choose to live with my girlfriend, we will have to find an apartment between Queens and central New Jersey, a distance of at least an hour and a half's drive. We will both have to commute by car.

We looked at a nice apartment this weekend which does have the necessities in walking distance and is close to by what looks like a great state park on the cliffs of the Hudson River.

Where I live now is more isolated; I have to drive (or take a bus with an inconvenient schedule) to get anywhere.

Foob -- I signed up and I'll take a look around the site. Thanks!

Flexo: one thing that has been helping me (because I, too, need to get fit) is the site Fit Day. It's a free, web-based service that allows you to track your food consumption and your exercise. Once you get used to it, it's very handy. Give it a look.

Maybe not appropriate for everyone, but I highly recommend getting involved with a social exercise group. The advantage of exercising with other people is that if you schedule in at least one "required activity" a week, you'll find that it's a lot easier to find the energy/motivation for other activities the rest of the week (and it'll hurt less too). Plus, it's a great way to meet new people and see new things.

These groups come in different flavors, though two of my favorites are (obviously specific to Baltimore):

Baltimore Sports and Social Club (baltssc.com)
Running/Walking, Eating and Volunteering Group (www.baltimorecollegetown.org/asp/activity_detai...)

The first is a local club with your basic football and softball, but also sports to the like of kickball and dodgeball. Their motto is "for people who enjoy sports, but LOVE to socialize". Hehe... it's skill levels are Social, Extreme Social, and Super-Extreme Social.

The second is a local club that gets together every Saturday at a different locally owned eatery. They walk or run (people split off into different groups) the week's course (there are direction sheets handed out at the start) and everyone reconvenes at 10:00am for a tasty breakfast/brunch. Definitely good if you're motivated by food in general, and new eateries in particular. This is one of my favorites :)

Cycling clubs are a little more varied in terms of personalities and socializing, but are good ways of learning the ropes.

Regardless, I'd recommend a "flat tire" kit for your two new bikes (pump, patch kit, levers) as well as the usual chain lube/water bottle/etc. Good luck!