If there is a college graduate in your life, he or she is about to receive a number of gifts. The first gift will be the realization that it can be difficult to find a job in this economy right now if the goal is to get a job in the same field of study as the degree. Without a job, our graduate might have little choice but to move back in with mom and/or dad and weather through the recession with curfews as if life were to replay high school.
The next gift will be the shock of the real world in the form of a job. Suddenly the graduate will have to report to work, perhaps at 8:00 am. It might have been easy to blow off early morning classes, but consequences in college were limited compared to the thread of being fired in the first month on the job.
Soon after that, perhaps six months after graduation, the first student loan payment will be due, shackling the graduate into earning enough money to pay off college debt in ten or more years.
If there is a college graduate in your life this year, consider these graduation gift suggestions.
1. Free room and board. There is a time and place for the “sink or swim” mentality, which comes from the idea that throwing a baby into a pool will force it to instantly learn to swim in order to survive. I’ve never known anyone to take this literal approach, but in the current state of the economy you could do your graduate a favor by allowing her to start her career without having to worry about the first several rent checks.
Rent-free living should not last forever.
2. Clothing. Every job has expected attire, even if the environment is very casual. Professionals need professional clothing, whether for interviews or in the office. The graduate is going to need to project an image in the workplace, and clothing is important to making that happen. A gift certificate would work well for clothing, allowing the graduate to choose her attire, but some guidance may be necessary because not every graduate has experience in dressing appropriately for professional situations.
3. A computer. Powerful and reliable notebook computers are relatively inexpensive now. Remember to pre-load important software for someone who will be starting their first post-college job: financial management software. I use Quicken 2009, which is available on sale here, and I still prefer the robustness and flexibility of desktop software like Quicken over web-based financial management like Mint and Quicken Online
4. A gas gift card or monthly commuter pass. Transportation is one of the many expenses new workers have to pay up front before receiving their first pay check. If your graduate has a job lined up and a place to live, she should have determined her transportation needs.
5. A car. If you have the means, a used car would make a good gift for the graduate as well. It doesn’t have to be the latest model, but employers expect employees to have reliable transportation; a clunker that breaks down once a week and causes the new employee to be late arriving to the office will not make a good impression and will not do any favors for career advancement.
6. Cash. Money is helpful when wielded for the forces of good. If you trust the graduate to use the money responsibly, to pay down debt for example, cash can be a good way to go. But don’t give cash if you will be offended if the recipient chooses to use the money for vacation or entertainment. If you cannot give cash with no strings attached, don’t give cash — try a gift card.
7. The gift of mistakes. The last thing a graduate wants is to be told what choices to make. Some guidance is helpful, particularly in choosing the first job out of college, as many graduates do not know the effect this choice can have on earning potential for the rest of the graduate’s life. But let them make mistakes, and when they do, help them interpret them as learning opportunities.
If you are a parent of a graduate this year, what gifts, if any, will you be bestowing upon your graduates?
Students and former students, what gifts have you received or would you have liked to receive?
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I got cash for graduation, which I used to buy a car. If your graduate already has decent employment lined up, I think clothes and/or rent for a few months would be a great and creative gift. It would really help make the transition.
When I graduated college, I got a supposedly expensive pen set. I would have rather had a new computer. To this day I haven’t used the pen and honestly have no clue where it is.
Here’s an idea: pay to send your graduate through Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University.
I disagree with #2 clothes. Being a recent grad, clothes is the last thing I would want. Grads want things they need or can help them post grad. Computer is great, car, great. Cash the best thing possible. Anything that can really help them out, especially if they don’t have a job yet.
I don’t know, Craig. If I were a graduate about to embark on the first job requiring a suit, not only would I need that first suit, but I may not even know *how* to correctly purchase one. Not all jobs require a suit of course, so whether clothing, advice about clothing, and/or money for clothing is a good gift depends on a few factors.
My oldest is graduating high school next month, and these tips are applicable to him, too. I’m sure he would prefer #6, in copious amounts.
@Flexo A suit is more understandable, but to be honest, that is something you should have before graduating. Odds are you will need a suit at some point in college, whether for job interviews, formals, presentations, etc. So I based my comment on assuming you already have a suit and other clothes are just additional clothes.
Well, look at it this way. A college student going on interviews requires no more than one suit, but certain jobs require suits to be everyday attire. You could wear the same suit every day to the office, but I would advise against it. I can’t rule out work attire from the possibility of being a good gift just because it doesn’t apply to everyone in all situations.
You could make similar arguments for everything else on the list because they don’t apply to everyone, except perhaps cash.
I have a cool one. When I embarked on my college tour, I did so with the full knowledge that I was on the hook for 50% of all costs from tuition to room and board. I went through a pretty rigorous Chemical Engineering program that took 5 years to complete and even at a state school, as you can imagine, the bill at the end was staggering.
As a really neat graduation gift, my dad said, OK, so your total share of the bill comes to X. But, as a graduation gift, since you did such a great job, etc. let’s take half off of that. This was an incedible surprise, not sure if it was planned all along or perhaps my parents’ financial situation had improved over the years, but boy, what a relief. I went from owing well, something higher in the 5 figures to lower in the 5 figures and it was something I could live with a pay back as an interest free loan over 5 years.
It taught me a few things early on about living within moderate means while in college and not trying to use my parents as a piggybank (since I was partially on the hook), and subsequently, about paying back debt (since I had no credit card debt to speak of and never have…and hope never to). I faithfully paid it back as agreed instead of leasing a new car I couldn’t afford like many of my friends were doing in their early 20s.
So, if you want to make your kid’s decade and still teach them some accountability/budgeting skills in the process, this is a neat trick to play on them!
@midwestbird
That is a great idea to send them to a personal finance course to get them off on the right foot.
@flexo
Your first suggestion is a huge one. Allowing someone a few months to build up some savings before they are on their can really make a huge difference in the long term. They are less likely to use credit cards for unexpected expenses and begin that cycle if they have a little cash in the bank.
When I was a student so many years ago, the best gift was when my mom took me out for lunch.
Restaurant food was such a treat after eating residence food for so long.
I never really cared too much for clothing, although a car would have been nice.
When I graduated I got cash in gift. I wish I had got something like #3, instead of computer I do prefer smart phone. Just to keep track! If you have an iPhone, there are some great free apps like moneyStrands that let you track expenses.