As someone who went to AA 15 years ago and broke the addiction, I can see that you need to update some of your thinking regarding what alcoholism is. Most folks thinks alcoholics are the sort that you describe in the beginning of your blog. That description certainly fits in many instances. However, many, if not most alcoholics, in my opinion, are “functional alcoholics.” FA’s are very oridnary people going about their daily lives without much difficulty at all. They have jobs, families and lead rather normal lives. I started a new business while I was drinking and was successful at it too.

So, just because you or any other heavy hitter with alcohol is not a falling down drunk, does not mean that you are not an alcoholic.

Secondly, your title “Mostly clean and mostly sober” is disturbing to me. Alcoholics always rationalize their excessive drinking by making a point of the few times in which they show some restraint in consumption. For example, I don’t say “I didn’t eat any mustard today.” Why? Because I don’t have a problem with eating mustard. People that do not have issues with alcohol don’t count their drinks or their empty bottles. When you start counting your drinks and making promises to not drink tomorrow or until Saturday…you have a problem!

Food for thought…Good luck!

Moderation is better. We all have our habits. I don’t drink unless it’s Moscato :)

Good stuff being cognizant of your consumption, and cutting down. But, I say, if it ain’t hurting your body, and your wallet, do what you enjoy doing! Moderation is key, however when it comes to your hobbies, do it without restraint.

I can fully relate to your entire story, except exchange “wine” for “pot”. I only drink casually. But I always go back and forth in my head on the severity or merits of being worried about my consumption.

Everything in moderation. If it isn’t harming your health or your life, just scale it back a bit, make it an event. Or set a limit, so you say “If I have my one glass right now, then I can’t have one with dinner” etc.

All the best in 2010. If this is the thing about your life that bothers you, you are doing great. Keep positive.

I personally enjoy a good glass of wine or a cold beer as a reward after a long or difficult day at work, or just to help get to sleep (perfect antidote to drinking caffeine all day).

Moderation in all things is good. Sounds like you are spending about $10 per bottle of wine. If you want to spend less, “two buck chuck” at Trader Joe’s (well, normally it’s now $3) is a great frugal alternative… tastes pretty good.