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If I were to tell you that I think I drink too much liquor, you’d likely conjure up some images of alcoholics you’ve seen, maybe picturing some guy falling down, abusing the people he loves, making terrible decisions and driving like an idiot. So I want to be clear right from the start that I am not a drunk, nor has anyone accused me of even coming close. I sympathize with those who suffer from real alcoholism, and I hope they all get help.

The truth of the matter is that while I don’t have an addictive personality, I do have A.D.D., and I’d been self-medicating without knowing it for the first thirty years of my life. Sometimes with sugar, sometimes with caffeine, and sometimes with liquor. But since I got diagnosed, I’ve been watching my behavior much more closely, and acting self-aware more often. I usually know just how much caffeine to take, and when to take it.

However, I think I’ve been overdoing it on the wine lately. Every so often some receptionist will ask me to fill out a form that asks, among other things, how much alcohol I drink. And I find that the answer I give – 1 glass a day on average – is becoming less true. It’s almost always at least two. More worryingly, some days I’ll come home and pour a glass as soon as the chores are done, which is before 5 PM. There have even been days when I want a drink before I even think about taking the garbage out.

Red wineI’m what you might call a quiet drunk, at least when I do it properly. Mostly, I just feel a lot less nervous and a lot more comfortable, as if I don’t have A.D.D. So, I’m not looking forward to losing that comfort, but I recognize that it’s artificial, and I don’t really want that for myself.

Why am I writing about this here? Well, because I’m the one who takes the garbage out, I see how many bottles of wine we go through. It is, not to put too fine a point on it, plenty of bottles. Let’s say there are ten glasses’ worth in each bottle (that’s a 1.5 liter bottle, you know, the big one), and my wife and I both have two glasses a day, and three each on Saturday and Sunday. This is a conservative estimate. That’s one bottle for the work week and just over half of another for the weekend.

In a month, that’s 68 glasses, or almost 7 bottles. Assuming we buy the cheap stuff every time, that’s about $70 a month. (Coincidentally, that’s the same amount we’re saving by switching off the cable TV.) Granted, sometimes I will want a glass of wine, and I’m not about to try banning it from the house. I’m not a prude, and I don’t seek frugality at the cost of comfort. But for myself, I’m going to try drinking less.

I’ll still have wine sometimes, but not every day as a matter of course. Like a visit to Starbucks, I think I’ll treat it like a reward for doing something I wanted to get done. And in 2010, I expect to get a lot of things done.

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Do you live your life as if everything you do could be made public? I once heard a suggestion that you should judge every decision you make based on whether you would like to see this decision on the front page of the New York Times. That is a good theory, but I can’t say I fully live by this philosophy.

Regardless of the life decisions I make, my purchase decisions are being recorded and analyzed. Almost all of my spending, particularly my major spending, is accomplished through a credit card. I only buy what I can afford and I pay the bill in full every month, but the fact I don’t enter debt or pay interest fees is besides the point.

Based on the places I shop, credit card companies may decide that, based on studies and calculations of the American consuming public en masse, I have become a riskier consumer. If I shop at Some Discount Store, and the algorithms show that people who shop at Some Discount Store are more likely to miss payments or default on a loan, the credit card companies can increase my rates or lower my credit limit. They can change the terms of my credit agreement without missing a payment, exceeding my credit limit, or using a higher percentage of my available credit. Yes, the credit card companies can decide to categorize me in a lower “credit class” based on where I shop. The Credit CARD Act of 2009 doesn’t change this possibility.

If the credit card companies decide to place me in a lower class of consumer, they could increase my interest rates or lower my credit limit. With less credit available, my credit score could be negatively affected. A lower credit score could then have significant financial consequences; I may not qualify for as low as an interest rate on a mortgage than I would have otherwise.

So if you are concerned more about what the credit card companies think of you than you are about what your friends and family think of you, avoid raising a red flag with your banks by choosing cash for these ten purchases. These were suggested by American Public Radio’s Marketplace show.

1. Traffic tickets. If you are more likely to speed and get caught, and to pay for your ticket or court fees with credit, you are a bigger credit risk. Because people who pay for tickets on their credit card tend to default on their payments more often, the credit cards may place you in a lower category of borrowers.

2. Retreading your tires. If you choose to retread rather than replace tires, credit card companies assume you do not have the money to properly maintain your possessions. And if the issuers believe you have less money than you may have indicated when you applied for the card, they might choose to reduce your benefits.

3. Bargain stores. Marketplace points out that American Express has been accused of lowering customers’ credit limits just for shopping at Wal-Mart. That sounds like class discrimination disguised as risk management, but the issuers argue that a change in shopping behavior in a direction of bargain stores indicates concern about money, and if that concern is legitimate, a job loss might be on the horizon. Following the thread, unemployed consumers are more likely to cause a problem for credit card companies.

4. Porn. While the Marketplace article says adult entertainment is simply considered escapism, and those who wish to “escape” may do so due to financial conditions, it seems more likely that credit card simply find consumers of porn to be riskier than others. I wonder if there is any distinction between local strip clubs and high-class escort establishments.

5. Marriage counseling and therapy. If your relationship is on the rocks, divorce might be imminent. Divorce brings on financial problems of its own, such as increased debt and even bankruptcy. The credit card companies will want to cover the possibility of future losses if they believe you are likely to go through a divorce.

6. Lottery tickets. Considered a tax on the poor, lottery tickets are purchased overwhelmingly by people without much money; perhaps winning the jackpot is seen as the only way for people who may not have been given the opportunities of the middle class, or those who had the opportunity to succeed but did not take advantage of them for whatever reason, to build a successful life. Credit card companies see lottery ticket purchases as acts of desperation, and those who are desperate are greater credit risks.

I must confess that when a co-worker goes from cubicle to cubicle, collecting a dollar from each of us to play in the large-jackpot lottery, I still contribute most of the time — not in an act of blind hope but in an act of being social. My coworker doesn’t accept credit cards, though, so I stay out of the banks’ radars.

7. Cash advances. Many years ago, I did take a cash advance. This was before I knew much of anything about personal finance. I had no emergency fund and I left my low-earning non-profit job without a concrete plan. I just needed a few hundred dollars to get me by for a little bit, and I paid it back quickly. But the credit card issuer could have used this event to lower my limit, increase my interest rate, and lower my credit score.

8. Personal pampering. Marketplace suggests women refrain from charging visits to the spa on the credit card if they haven’t established a history of doing so previously.

9. Income taxes. the IRS allows you to pay your income tax bill via credit card. In fact, many people have recommended doing so if you have the cash to pay the bill in full when it comes due and if you can earn cash back or other valuable rewards by paying a large amount of money through credit. But a credit card company may interpret this method of payment as a sign that you can’t handle your financial responsibilities and may penalize you to prevent a larger loss if you default.

10. Alcohol. Drowning your financial sorrows at the bar? That is what the credit card issuers are likely to think if you start using your credit card in bars and liquor stores. Start making a habit of visiting bars and charging the drinks and you may raise a red flag.

While it’s unlikely that some Chase employee is poring over your credit card statement marking demerits for your porn, booze, gambling and spa vacations, the credit card companies have algorithms that detect these patterns automatically. Effectively, a computer program is making the “decision” that could result in your paying thousands of dollars more for your mortgage than if you just paid cash for these certain products and activities.

Marketplace

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The selection of winners for giveaways on Consumerism Commentary is a supersecret process being kept confidential by the CIA. Therefore, I can only provide the results. The winner of last week’s giveaway is Jon K. The topic was the relationship between social drinking and career advancement, and here is part of Jon K’s comment:

My company has a very liberal policy about drinking. In fact, I just came home from a company sponsored happy hour. We are a small company (53 FTE) and mostly hire employees straight out of college, so the average age is quite young. Not to say younger people drink more, but I think young, just out of college, mostly single people with no kids are able to drink/socialize with fewer qualms about rushing home from work…

I live in the South, home to devout Southern Baptists who think liquor is the devil’s elixir. But you know what, to each his own. We also have a Bible study group that gets together some mornings and for an occasional lunch. The company allows them to use the office conference room for their gathering…

Anything that contributes to “good times,” as long as it’s done in moderation, should lead to higher incomes. The simple truth is, people want to do business with people they trust, people they can relate to, and people they are comfortable around. Building these profitable relationships tends to work better with alcohol than soda.

Jon K has the following update to add today:

I am at our annual User Conference now. Last night we had a live band and open bar, and tonight I am taking three clients out for margaritas, all of which will end up on my next expense report. Gotta love a company that embraces fun!

This discussion was fun. Jon K will receive The Big Money, by Fred Kobrick and Elliott Wave Principle: Key to Market Behavior, by A.J. Frost.

Tomorrow morning, I’ll be starting a new giveaway contest, so stay tuned!

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Corzine’s New Jersey Budget

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The big story in New Jersey today was Governor Corzine’s proposed state budget. You can read his speech here. To summarize, New Jerseyans will be looking at higher sales tax, increased tax on cigarettes and liquor, increased tax on luxuries like limousine services and tanning salons, possibly increased property taxes even after rebates, and no increase in state assistance to schools, and elimination of state income tax for those with less than $30,000 in annual income.

If you’re one of the many who travel from New York to New Jersey to purchase clothing without sales tax, you do not need to worry. Clothing will still be tax-free in the state.

Looking beyond politics, here are the principles on which Corzine says he has based the budget proposal:

* We must stop spending more than we take in.
* We must stop borrowing and using gimmicks to pay today’s bills.
* We must rely much more heavily on cuts in spending and savings than new revenues to balance our books, and
* We must be smart in finding ways to mitigate the impact of these cuts to protect the most vulnerable in our state.

To translate, Corzine wants the state’s philosphy to emphasize living below your means, refraining from using one credit card to pay off another, focusing on expenses rather than the less flexible income, and helping to look after those who need assistance.

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How to Order Wine in a Restaurant

by Flexo

If you’re the type of person who enjoys wine, you’d like this article explaining how to order wine in a restaurant. There are good tips within the article which will help you save your money and your respect. Some of my favorite tips, expanded upon in the article: * Read the wine list. Note the ... Continue reading this article…

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